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The Schism Of Contemporary Professional Relationship Expectations

“Come Get Some!”… Duke Nukem

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So, there’s the guy I sort of know and, well, you see…

Let me start over.  My wife is really good friends with a woman whose husband has a very similar position to mine.  Oddly enough for reasons not pertinent to this post, I’ve only met the guy a couple times and each meeting was brief enough so that we really never had a chance to “talk shop”.  I never ascribed much to this fact until it was communicated to me that the fact our lack of communication (with our being in the same industry) suggests to him that I am remote, inaccessible & aloof.

Huh?

His comment hit me kinda funny because I pride myself on being extremely accessible to anyone who wishes to reach out to me, whether it be on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn or Email.  My universe of friends, companions & colleagues (with very few exceptions) is connected to me through one or more social media platforms.  In 2010, I actually take it for granted that everyone I need to communicate with or care about is digitally connected with me some way.  As a part of my normal work routine, I go out of my way to memorialize even the most marginal relationships that I make via at least one of these platforms because each contact I make matters to me and it’s impossible to forecast which of them might prove beneficial or fruitful down the road.  I strive to not have any relationships that are “like two ships passing in the night.”

Truthfully, I’m surprised that I’ve only once come across even a hint of his presence anywhere in my sphere of influence (and it was a very fleeting reference).  Now, how one participates in the social media sphere is a personal decision and if he decided to play the game differently than I do, I can respect that.  However, I would suggest that the inaccessible, aloof person is the one who not only withholds their presence from the greater community but won’t even use those clearly labeled channels to reach out and acknowledge something / someone that he felt needed acknowledgement.  I also found it strange that I was evaluated purely through a pre-social media prism when most in our industry would acknowledge that the totality of a person must include their social media profiles & interactions.

In an old post, I argued that the schism between those who “take the social media trip” and those that don’t is vast and will continue to grow bigger.  However, I presupposed that most people not “taking the trip” had no connection to our industry.    Many more people are now “fellow travelers” than were when I wrote this post and I now make the assumption that anyone who qualifies as a “colleague” (loosely defined) will be trippin’ with the greater group.  I really don’t know how to respond to someone in our industry who isn’t “with it”.  The benefits of participating are well-chronicled elsewhere…people always have a reason why not to do something and I suggest that whatever those reasons might be are ultimately misguided.

If he ever surrenders, I’ll welcome him to the island with open arms…and I’m reasonably sure he’d view me in a different light :.)

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 The Schism Of Contemporary Professional Relationship Expectations
Todd Mintz knows PPC...knows Social Media...knows SEO...knows Blogging...knows Domaining...and knows them all real well. He is also a Director & Founding Member of SEMpdx: Portland, Oregon's Search Engine Marketing Association.
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3 thoughts on “The Schism Of Contemporary Professional Relationship Expectations

  1. I know what you mean when you say people that are in our industry and aren't “with it”. I have had similar experiences to what you describe, I think that some people just aren't interested on the social media stuff, or even new things in our industry. Usually the same people that don't jump on board with something like social media are the same people that don't upgrade their servers and OS from their 8 year old installation. They're still running NT, “because it works” or “why would I upgrade?” kind of mentality. For some other people, being in “our industry” as I presume is IT in general, is just a job. They're not in it because they like it or love, it, but because it pays the bills. Maybe your acquaintance feels like this about it.

  2. Hi Todd!

    Yours is an entertaining article based on a very valid point; people need to be willing to change to keep up with the changes in life.
    Social media platforms continue to become integrated into more marketing programs, to help businesses build trust in their brands and make more connections.
    Thank you.
    Take care.

  3. Hi Todd!

    Yours is an entertaining article based on a very valid point; people need to be willing to change to keep up with the changes in life.
    Social media platforms continue to become integrated into more marketing programs, to help businesses build trust in their brands and make more connections.
    Thank you.
    Take care.